If you`re committed to always doing your best, give yourself a “pause and reset” whenever necessary to regroup. You will break an immense spell of self-judgment that has exhausted your freedom and deprived you of the joy of the present. Showing this compassion in the first place is what motivates you to continue to be aware and strengthen your competence in compliance with 1-3 agreements. The four agreements are at odds with most of the agreements you have learned in your life. You will help break the program code in your mind, but they must be practiced, and the only way to do so is to focus your attention. Focus on the agreement you want to change and use the power of your intention to enter into a new agreement that you will not believe in the old agreement. If you do not believe something, you accept that it is not true, and you do not learn that agreement. If your faith creates deep happiness in you, then I say, keep it. If they cause trouble, if the beliefs of others are different, consciousness can leave you with the choice of what you believe and what you let go. Many of our convictions, our concepts, our agreements were nourished to us as “truth” when we were young, and we accepted them literally and completely.
The beginning of the four chords is about how we were domesticated by our caregivers in a “dream” of life. The only dream they gave us was the one they lived, which they received most often from their parents, etc. We have to break many old arrangements and change a lot of domesticated beliefs to really keep a space for someone who hurts us or who is angry without judging to withdraw, defend, accuse, intellectualize, share their dream. I interpreted “is” as living in the present and “was” the representation of past behaviors. Tension change probably intentionally. The best way to develop knowledge is to bypass other evaluations and read the material and develop your own knowledge. Because I also look at topics in relation to me My opinion is that we all get something different from any book, based on completely different emotional reactions, based on the observations of a group that reads all four chords at the same time. There were about 50 of them, and I recommended it to a brother and sister who had a childhood trauma. He read the first chapters in tears, but he understood the healing power in himself. The first one only me off, but I understood that he was drawing why we shouldn`t believe that way. Be immaculate with your word.
Don`t take anything personal. Don`t make any assumptions. Always do your best. The light and the truth. I like what you`re saying. If you`ve written a book about your spontaneous chords, I`ll read it. In addition to demhur`s book and book, there is also an eBook, a four-colour picture book, a card game and an online course.  As far as ingratitude is concerned, this word certainly has the connotation of perfectionism, and if one takes it that way, one would indeed go mad. (Besides, the impeccability and other agreements you make with yourself, not the requirements that Ruiz imposes on you.) On the other hand, if you engage perfectly with your word as your goal, if you commit to be as honest and kind as possible with your words, without waiting for perfection of yourself or to fight if you are too short, this agreement could improve your well-being with yourself.